Proposing is one of the scariest, most frightening things that a guy could do. Now, it should be scary because it must be done correctly. If one were to propose in a way that has taken no thought what-so-ever, then it can possibly affect the outcome of the answer. Guys: girls do recognize these things! So, let’s go over a few basics.
One who wants to propose must (I repeat, MUST) participate in an activity prior to popping the dreaded question. Now, this activity could be any number of choices to choose from. Whether it be a nice romantic dinner, or possibly just the two of you on a gondola! These activities are crucial, because the guy must show the girl how much he truly loves her.
Remember: This is a very important night, this night must be made to remember for both the man and the woman.
One of the best romantic ways to propose is to have a good friend, or family member set up a brilliant picnic in a park. This picnic can include very nice wine and cheese, along with her favorite foods. While at the picnic, it would be a very romantic time to propose. This is a relatively cheap, and simple, yet very romantic way of proposing.
Remember, there are many romantic ways to propose but she must know how much that she is loved, therefore, it must be heavily thought about before-hand! Don’t worry, we can help with many great scenarios and tips. By following our tips, this will foresure be a night to remember!
So you want to propose? Well, don’t forget to make it a day to remember, a day that she can look back on and recall every single second of. This can actually be quite tricky. Lucky for you, I am here to try to ease that pain just a little bit. The place where you propose is one of the most important aspects of the whole situation. What do you think she would do if you propose in a McDonald’s bathroom? I don’t think that she would enjoy that so much… So let’s try to think of a few better places.
One of the most romantic places to propose (however, timing is very important) is on a beach. Yes, we have all seen those romantic chick-flicks where the guy proposes at sunset and they are just thrilled. Well, this is actually a very romantic way, even though it may be rather cheesy. A beach at sunset (make sure it is private) is a girl’s favorite place to be. If you are looking to impress her and show her how romantic you can be, well then this is the option for you.
Okay, well for those who want to be even more creative, let’s try to impress her even more. Has your girlfriend ever wanted to go scuba diving? Well, take her scuba diving and show her the great big (or not-so-big) sparkly diamond. She will be astounded with this proposal, and is bound to say yes.
As I said before, but I cannot stress enough, is that the place is one of the most important things. Your girlfriend will be so much more impressed and remember the day you proposed to her underwater forever. Your silver, golden, or even platinum anniversaries will come with joy and glee, if you propose correctly.
All right, you have now gotten engaged with the love of your life and are ready to announce it to the whole world, right?! Not yet you aren’t. Believe it or not, there is an etiquette as to how you should announce your newest and greatest news. Let’s get you informed, huh?
Step one: your kids. If you do not have any, then you may skip this step. Your kids should always be the first to know. Hopefully they see this coming, but if not, then make it easy on them! Typically the next in line are the bride’s parents , then following with the groom’s parents. You must always both be present when presenting this news, even if it is over the phone. The rest of your family comes next. For example: grandparents, siblings, cousins, etc. Last but not least is going to be the couple’s close friends and whoever else you would like to know of the outstanding news.
I can assure you that if the order is not taken into consideration, then relationships can be hurt, so make sure that you follow the correct etiquette!
So, now you want to announce your news to the whole world? Well there are ample ways that you can accomplish this next task. First off, send cards to anyone and everyone that you know. This is a very easy way to inform everyone. If you want, you can even post an ad in the newspaper . You may also be having an engagement party; make this a big one, and invite everyone that you know.
Remember to follow the correct etiquette of announcing your engagement announcement! You do not want to hinder any relationships. To review the order: Kids, parents, other family, friends, world. It is pretty simple when it comes down to it.
There are so many romantic ways to propose but you need to figure out what to do for a ring! This is a question that is asked by nearly every client. Typically, each person will have a certain amount of money they can spend. Depending on how big you want that diamond (if you do want a diamond) to be, or the type and purity of the metal will determine the price that you would spend.
Now, the average cost of a diamond ring is $3,500 to $4,000. This does look very expensive at first probably, but think of it this way: you are paying that much money to last a lifetime. Say you were to be married for 50 years. That’s only 70 dollars a year, or 19 cents a day. I think anyone could afford that even just looking for couch change.
The price all depends on what one is looking for, and how expensive your girlfriend’s taste is. If you want a white gold, or gold ring then it won’t be as expensive as a platinum ring. Again, it’s all based upon quality. A gold ring can be a lot more soft than a platinum ring. You are paying for how sturdy the ring is.
What if I can’t afford it?
There are diamond jewelers who will give you a loan to buy a ring. These are typically closed-end contracts and must be paid monthly for the given amount of time.
There are rings to fit every single girl out there. So, look around. Browse the web. Who knows, you may even be able to find one for under average price, but you must look at the quality, and always remember: she must love the way that it looks, because she has to wear it every single day for as long as you two are together. Try to impress her with a really nice ring, but I can assure you that she will not love you any less if you cannot give her a $5,000 or more wedding ring!
We all know that diamonds are a girl’s best friend. So, we must pick out the best ring that fits her. Just like any other purchase, you must research the item that you are looking to buy. I mean, honestly, she will be wearing it every day as long as you two are together. It has to be something that she likes to look at.
So, let’s start with the basics, eh?
The style of the wedding rings. This is so very different depending on the woman. Different women like different styles. Some like white gold, some like platinum, some like yellow gold, some like rubies, sapphires, some like diamonds. Some people like to propose without a ring, and then go pick out one with the woman together. This is a sure way to know that she will like it.
Yellow gold, white gold, or platinum?
They all have their advantages and disadvantages. Let’s start with yellow gold. Now, this is the “traditional” metal, it signifies warmth, and even love of your marriage. Gold comes in different purities ranging from 14k to 24k. 24k is the softest, and should not be bought if you work with your hands a lot. White gold is a very popular pick because it is a mix of platinum and gold. It is also good because it is cheaper than platinum! Platinum is the most expensive of the three because of how hard it is. Due to that exact fact, it represents how the couple’s love can endure anything.
There are many more viable options that must be considered before choosing, but I must just go over the basics with you first. Remember, you must be sure that your soon-to-be fiancé will enjoy looking at her new ring on a daily basis. She must want to brag and boast about it to all of her friends.
